Introduction - What is it like being a Cosplayer?

Hi, I'm Dhare and I'm proud to say that I'm a cosplayer. For the last 2 years, I have proudly donned everything from tights to armor in public. It is incredibly gratifying to be a super hero or villain, even if it's just pretend. It may take months to finish one costume, but seeing someone smile for a second makes all the blood, sweat and tears worth it. Being a cosplayer is all about being a part of a community of heroes or villains - whom constantly battle with time, money and perfection.

What are your next goals?

My next con is New York Comic Con 2014. I plan on competing at the Cosplay Competition with a brand new costume. I'm also planning on several costumes for next year that will require me bulking up significantly.

Cosplay Characters

I have cosplayed as Commander Shepard from Mass Effect twice, Deathstroke from Batman: Arkham Origins, Batman Thrasher from the Court of Owls, and a mash-up between Spiderman and Captain America - Captain Spiderman.

What does Cosplay mean to you?

Cosplay means hanging out with my closest friends while in costume. As a working professional in New York who works a grown-up job, it's nice to be able to allow my inner child to come out.

Who have been your biggest influences/role models/mentors?

My fiancee, Becka Noel, is an incredibly talented cosplayer. Everything I know was taught by her. The princess of cosplay, Jessica Nigri, was a huge influence as well. During New York Comic Con 2013, I was wearing a very heavy cosplay armor that had me sweating and cranky. Towards the end of the day, we ran into Jessica Nigri, who had just as much armor as me, but was still bubbly and happy to be there. That encounter changed my outlook on how to handle armor forever.

Do you have any advice or suggestions for upcoming Cosplayers?

You will always fight against time, money and perfection. Enjoy the battle because it makes you stronger. The most important aspect of cosplay is in the name - PLAY. Please have fun. Ask for help from experienced cosplayers. There are so many out there who would gladly lend a helping hand. I would have stopped a long time ago if it had not been for the countless cosplayers who have literally come to my apartment to help out.

What is the most negative experience you've dealt with while cosplaying, and how did you handle it?

As an asian male, I have been called out for cosplaying a character who is traditionally caucasian. Before I could respond to the shocking racial comment, scores of cosplayers immediately came to my defense.

Any final remarks or shout-outs?

Have FUN!!!